A story of unwavering support: How a mother's commitment led to her daughter's success

Meet Ms. Thokozani Kujingo, the proud mother of Evelyn Kujingo, a recent Bachelor of Arts in Humanities graduate from the University of Malawi. Evelyn, who has special needs and uses a wheelchair for mobility, began her studies at UNIMA in September 2019. Ms. Kujingo recalls the delight of witnessing her daughter achieve this significant milestone, despite the unique challenges they faced.

"Seeing my daughter achieve this after all her hard work and determination brought me immense joy, relief, and excitement," she said.

However, their journey was not without obstacles. In addition to common challenges like financial constraints, finding food, and tuition, Evelyn also struggled with the physical and academic demands of university life. Her mobility issues made it difficult to access certain resources such as some sections of the library, and being in a wheelchair all day was exhausting. Emotional support was also critical, as the pressure of college life weighed heavily on her.

Determined to help her daughter succeed, Ms. Kujingo provided constant support throughout Evelyn's studies. She assisted with academic guidance by helping Evelyn develop study strategies, celebrated every milestone to boost her confidence, and offered emotional support through encouragement during stressful times. Ms. Kujingo also provided financial assistance and continually reminded Evelyn to trust in God.

To ensure Evelyn received the support she needed, Ms. Kujingo spent much of her time on campus, almost living like a fellow student. She would seek some part-time jobs and other casual work to finance her daughter's education, while also staying close by to offer assistance.

UNIMA, being the one of the public universities with support services for students with special needs, provided Evelyn with specialist assistants who helped her attend classes every day and arranged transportation to and from home each semester. The institution also offered her a room to stay on campus.

Reflecting on this journey, Ms. Kujingo advised other mothers in similar situations to show love and encouragement to their children with disabilities, urging them to work hard in their studies.

When asked about what Evelyn's graduation meant to her family, Ms. Kujingo said, "This achievement fills us with pride and joy. It’s a testament to Evelyn’s perseverance and marks the beginning of new opportunities for her future. Her wheelchair may give her mobility, but her spirit gives her unstoppable momentum. Truly, disability is not inability."

As the saying goes, “a mother's love fuels the pursuit of knowledge, making every academic success possible,” we take a moment to salute the sacrifices and love that Ms. Kujingo and other women like her show their children to help them realize their academic goals.

Happy Mother’s Day!